Love is in the Air

Well, here we are in February and many individuals are commemorating St. Valentines. It is a good time to consider love and relationships to put a little bit of heat in our lives after a long winter season.

Today, I wish to look at what love is. The English language only has one word for love and it is utilized interchangeably for almost everything. We can say I love my partner and I enjoy Chocolate.

Both are using the exact same word and it is just by the context that we can establish the distinction. The Greeks, on the other hand, have 4 various words to describe love. Each word offers a various subtlety to the word that helps us comprehend more totally what is being mentioned.

I want to look with you at the 4 Greek words for love.
These are:
1) Eros.
2) Storge.
3) Philia.
4) Agape.

Eros:.
The first type of love we are all familiar with. Sadly, some people never get passed this type of love and base their relationships simply on sexual attraction. This is the type of love that merchandisers tend to play on with the public trying to get us to buy their items to make us more appealing to the opposite sex.

It was impossible for me to fall in love with my fiancĂ© based on smell as we satisfied through ICQ on the Internet. Our relationship was based on character and relationship which later developed into love. You can say we fulfilled each other and we simply clicked;–RRB- (pun planned).

The point is that sexual love is not a deep significant love however shallow and based on sexual attractiveness just.

2) Storge:.
This kind of love is what we discover in households between the different members. It is the love of mom, father, bros and siblings. This is a much more powerful type of love and includes dedication. “Blood is thicker than water” and the majority of people will do all they can to guarantee their families.

3) Philia:.
It is a great type of love and helps us to see others as requiring our love however, unfortunately, it can frequently also be a selfish love. Many individuals just reveal love to others if they can get something out of it. Fortunately, most individuals like out of pure intentions.

4) Agape:.
The 4th type of love is called Agape love. It is a difficult love to obtain merely because we, as people, are generally worried more with ourselves and how the world and individuals around us affect us. Prime examples of this type of love are people like Mother Theresa, Cardinal Leger and so on.

Without getting spiritual here, I simply want to inform you there is a verse from the Bible that fits well with this idea. It is called the Golden Rule. Luke 10:27, says “Love your neighbour as yourself” and “Therefore, whatever you desire males to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” -Matthew 7:12. All relgions of the world share in this same viewpoint.

Regretfully, lots of individuals in this day and age, don’t like themselves. If you do not love yourself how can you like others? As you like yourself you will find it simpler to love others.

The 2nd thing that stands apart is that the Golden guideline states to do exactly what you desire others to do to you. This is not the like “Don’t do to others what you do not desire them to do to you.” It is not a position of preventing doing evil or harming others however a real DOING of something for others. This needs action on your part. It states “DO unto others”. It is when we recognize that we gain the benefits of love as we involve ourselves in the lives of others, making their lives much easier and more enjoyable, as we would want our own lives to be.

Take pleasure in the month of Love and remember constantly to like yourself and to perform something for someone each day.

We can state I love my hubby and I enjoy Chocolate.

It is an excellent type of love and helps us to see others as requiring our love however, sadly, it can often also be a selfish love. The fourth type of love is called Agape love. If you do not love yourself how can you love others? As you love yourself you will find it simpler to like others.

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Love – Fantasy or REAL?

Dear Folks
Definition of love has been different for me with the passage of time I kept growing. Like when I was around age of 15, to me Love was absolutely nothing however a relationship in between a man and a woman.
Later on, I matured, been to highschool, and discovered that love was mixture of love, sensations and friendship in which the power of possesion is not offered. It’s pure like God. If I aim to scratch my thoughts of that time, I keep in mind that I was in dilemma that Sex is evil and can not exist in Love, and if exists in love, it’s bad relationship and not enjoy!!
Someone has truly said “Love me for a factor and let the reason be love”. This sentence informs whatever to learn about Love. Love is not exactly what we can describe in type of words neither can we reveal it in words. It’s a matter of feelings, feelings, inner vibrations and happiness.
Individual in love finds each and every act of his precious like the best act that might exist on earth. Love resembles a female feels shy in her dream just envisioning that her boyfriend has actually touched her lips with his fingers. Love is more living than talking.
We can fall in love more than when even with the exact same person!! Love is method to know more and more in depth about the person we enjoy. Each day sun increases and informs us brand-new stories about love by making us fall in love. There is even possibility that we can be in love with two different individuals at the very same time!! Sort of hard to comprehend this, but as I said that love can not be revealed in form of words, it’s a matter of sensation so might seem difficult to understand to be fallen in love with more than one person at the very same time, however in the coming time, you might discover yourself in such condition and I don’t call it bizzare, it’s just typical.
Love can occur anytime, anywhere. You may be strolling in the earny cold morning on the sea-side and you see a lady from the range that you cannot see her face, however you see the entity which might attract you and you may fall in love in less than a second even without your understanding!! Like wise, you may be sick and tired of work at your workplace and returning to your home feeling damn lazyness within yourself and when the whole words seems without appeal to you, and if at that time a beautiful smile from an unknown individual might make you fall in love!!
Sometimes life may seem short to fall in love!!(Link : 7Slots)

If I attempt to scratch my ideas of that time, I remember that I was in issue that Sex is wicked and can not exist in Love, and if exists in love, it’s bad relationship and not like!!
Someone has truly genuinely “Love me for a reason factor let the reason be love”. We can fall in love more than as soon as even with the very same person!! Love is way to know more and more in depth about the person we love. Each day sun rises and informs us brand-new stories about love by making us fall in love. There is even possibility that we can be in love with 2 various persons at the very same time!! Sort of hard to comprehend this, however as I said that love can not be expressed in kind of words, it’s a matter of sensation so may seem tough to comprehend to be fallen in love with more than one individual at the exact same time, but in the coming time, you might discover yourself in such condition and I do not call it bizzare, it’s simply normal.

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Its OK. To Love.

Can you love someone that doesn’t love you, can you express love to someone else that declines to return that love? Simply due to the fact that others don’t love you does not imply that you cant love them, just because others do not reveal love to you doesn’t indicate that you can reveal love to them. There are numerous verses in scripture that mention what love is, the love of God, the love of Spouse, the love of next-door neighbor, the love of opponent and the love of Children.

John 13:34 A new rule I offer unto you, That ye like one another; as I have enjoyed you, that ye likewise like one another. Can you love someone that does not enjoy you, can you reveal love to somebody else that declines to return that love? Simply due to the fact that others don’t enjoy you does not mean that you cant love them, just since others do not show love to you does not suggest that you can reveal love to them. Does a man enjoy his children when he refuses to feed them, does a male enjoy his spouse when he declines to care for them, does a guy love God when he declines to serve Him? There are numerous verses in scripture that specify exactly what love is, the love of God, the love of Spouse, the love of next-door neighbor, the love of enemy and the love of Children.

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